A Very Special Thanks to the Thoughtful and Generous Avis Crew at the Mpls/St. Paul International Airport

We need to share with you an unbelievable experience we had while looking for a rental car for our Road Trip.  Paul and I were scheduled to leave on our Veterans Trip on Friday, October 19th.  We knew a large part of the expense was going to be gas for this road trip of 5,000 plus miles.  Getting a fuel efficient car was extremely important  so I began calling car rental agencies to see what was available.  What I didn't realize that we were leaving on the busiest fall weekend.  MEA weekend in MN is an extended weekend when all schools are on fall break due to the MN teacher convention. 

I called a couple agencies to hear the same thing "we can't guarantee anything".  With such high gas prices, I started to calculate the cost if we got stuck with a gas guzzler and started to realize this trip might not be "doable" after all.  I decided to call the last rental agency and ask if I could talk to a manager.  Perhaps if they knew how long this trip was and how important it really was to get the right model, perhaps I could talk them into "holding" one aside for us and guaranteeing its' availability. 

So I dialed AVIS and asked to talk to a manager.  Laura, the woman that answered asked if she could help me and I explained our dilemma.   She said "hold on" and I assumed she was getting her manager.  I wish I could remember her exact words, but when she returned to the phone she said something like "I think we can do better than that".  She explained that every fall the AVIS crew at the airport takes on a special project and raises funds for that project.  "WE" were going to be the ones they supported- she said that their crew at the Mpls Airport AVIS liked dogs and they like Veterans.  Unbelievable- she said not to worry and gave me the names of the ones to see when the day arrived to leave. Here is a picture of the crew when we picked up the car.

So, needless to say we were back on track with our plans and cancelling was no longer a possibility.  And better than that, I began to think this trip was "meant to happen" and that thought drove us forward with a stronger sense of purpose.

 

Manager Randy, Paul, Joleen, and Manager Mike

When we got to the Airport AVIS location to pick up our car, they had a very comfortable Toyota Camry ready for us. Here is a picture of Paul, their manager, and two wonderful members of the Avis crew when we picked up the car.

 At the end of our trip we met Laura and her crew at AVIS when we returned our car, not only did they raise funds to cover our 2 1/2 week rental, they gave us over $150.00 towards our gas. Absolutely unbelievable!   

Paul, Manager Ali, and Laura

We took pictures and this one shows Paul,  Laura and another member of her crew.  And also they had a supper bag with the best homemade sloppy joes, gourmet potato chips, fresh buns and treats for our dog Maddie!  We hope to stay in touch with these wonderful folks.  They are one caring group of employees that  do great things quietly.  So let's give them a huge shout out. 

  

So if you think all rental cars are the same, remember the wonderful employees at AVIS and realize that they stand solidly behind their motto "AVIS - WE TRY HARDER"  - never doubt they mean it! 

Our Trip Back Home - What Did We Learn?

On the way home after our last stop in Albuquerque we had a chance to think back on all the wonderful people we met the past several weeks on the road. 

The most important point we want to make is to the people that might question  if service dogs really make a difference for Veterans with PTSD and TBI.  Based on all we heard and the men and women we met, the answer is a resounding  "YES".  Not only do these service dogs change their lives - they also save lives.  We met several Veterans that talked about thoughts or attempts of suicide in their past.  One Veteran  thought about it daily during a long period in his life when he was totally housebound.  Then he was paired with his service dog and is finally able to navigate his way back into the public. Another Veteran survived his suicide attempt and after much work on his part along with counseling finally was in the position to care for a dog. This service dog enabled him to get out of seclusion and join the world again -now leading a very positive life.

After meeting our first two veterans in Louisville, Paul and I looked at each other and commented "It  can't possibly get any better than those two guys!"  Every Veteran we met with was outstanding.  They were all so polite, well spoken, and above all extremely patriotic .  After hearing about what  each of them had gone through, you could have expected some bitterness.  But instead we found men and women that would do it all again, some who fought to stay in the military, stay with their units and did not want to end  their service.  We also found it so interesting that a high percentage are currently doing some type of advocacy for fellow veterans or want to go into some kind of work or service in the future to improve the lives of veterans.

 

We were so honored to have met each one of them.  Believe me, if these Veterans were examples of today's soldiers, we are all in good hands.  But the culture in the military doesn't allow them to complain and they don't.  They hide their symptoms as they just try to get through each day- losing spouses, jobs, families and hope.   We only wish these Veterans weren't left having to figure out how to survive with such horrible disorders.  We owe them so much more.    Some had been housebound for years before having a buddy or relative or counselor finally suggest a service dog organization.   We thought about all the time they had lost and kept thinking about the thousands of other "wounded warriors" out there trying to get through each day unaware that a dog could be an option.   These young men were the ages of our sons.  They had all gone through counseling, dozens of medications only to find nothing changed.  

How absolutely amazing that these four legged miracles came into their lives.  The interesting thing was that according to the organizations we spoke with, the lives of these veterans begin to change dramatically the day they were introduced to their new service dog.   Some found that their dogs woke them from nightmares on the first night in training. Dogs are absolutely amazing and what they are capable of is unbelievable.

What can we do?  We'll talk about that tomorrow- 

Theresa and Jax in Albuquerque

Theresa and Jax were the last of the wonderful Veterans we have met  the past several weeks.  Theresa was in ROTC in high school and enlisted as soon as she graduated.  She had hoped to go into a health care career by enlisting and also wanted to travel.  At 18 years old, she wasn't expecting a war and when Iraq heated up she found herself deployed as a combat medic on the front lines. She served 4 years active duty, one year with the National Guard and one year in the reserves.

She worked at the VA hospital and was transferred to the emergency room.  She found herself working in a department where she found triggers and flashbacks everywhere from her past making the job impossible. She was unable to continue.  She found herself more and more isolated at home and trying to deal with multiple symptoms of PTSD as best she could.  One of her counselors suggested that service dogs had been helpful to some veterans and she contacted Paws and Stripes.  Theresa had recently rescued Jax, a boxer that had been found on the street.  She had Jax evaluated by their trainers and he passed with flying colors and their training began.

Theresa was eager for us to know that Jax rescued her.  Today he has made it possible for her to go out in public and has given her the confidence she needs  to move forward with her life.  When I asked her what he does for her she said Jax has an amazing internal clock and makes sure she wakes up at the same time every morning and reminds her to take her medicine.  Theresa also suffers from nightmares and Jax is there to wake her up from them and just his company now allows her to go back to sleep.  Theresa has mobility issues and Jax helps her to stand up.  He helps to reduce her overall anxiety and reminds her when she is getting anxious.  He does reconnaissance when they are in stores and she knows in those situations that he "has her back".  That is a term we have heard over and over from the veterans we talked to- how important it is that service dogs are another set of eyes. 

Theresa was eager for us to understand that Jax rescued her.  Today he has made it possible for her to go out in public and has given her the confidence she needs  to move forward with her life again.  It was great meeting Theresa and we enjoyed the time we were able to spend with this special twosome.   We could only imagine the bravery it took for Theresa to be a combat medic on the front lines.  Today she is finding a way to regain her life. We hope she knows how much we admire her. 

Thanks Theresa for your service and please stay in touch.

Meet Jim Stanek -The Inspiration for Our Calendar

Jim Stanek, founder of Paws and Stripes in Rio Rancho, New Mexico was the Veteran that originally inspired Paul and I a year and a half ago.  We were anxious to meet Jim and Lindsey in person and learn more about their non-profit organization for wounded veterans that works to provide service dogs for PTSD and TBI. 

Rio Rancho and Albuquerque are at the base of the gorgeous Sandia Mountains.  We were to meet Jim and Sarge at a park not far from their office.  We had planned on staying two days in New Mexico but unfortunately we lost a day to weather in Florida.  Thanks to hurricane Sandy we only had time to photograph Jim's dog Sarge and Jax, our very last dog and the service dog belonging to one of their graduates.  Once again we were blessed with beautiful weather to photograph these dogs.

Originally, Jim was an iron worker and volunteer fireman living in Long Island, NY when 9-11 happened.  Immediately he and fellow firemen rushed to ground zero to help.  Because he was under six foot, was strong, and experienced in rescue, he was lowered deep into the rubble to look for survivors.  They worked non-stop for the next 3 months working 22 hour days.  When rescue and later recovery ended, Jim found the closest recruiting office and signed up.

Two weeks after finishing basics, Jim was deployed to Iraq.  he served three tours of Iraq that ended with an injury and eventually he was medically retired.  After nine months in treatment at Brook Army Medical Center in San Antonio, TX,  Jim discovered that the most comfort and relief he found was in the presence of therapy dogs.  They started researching service dogs for Veterans and discovered price tags of $10-$60M for programs with breeder dogs and waiting lists up to five years.  

Lindsey had adopted a dog for Jim and they started noticing this dog was trying to alert him to anxiety attacks, blackouts , etc.  Luckily they found local trainers to work with.  They learned how to fine tune Sarge's skills so that he could help Jim manage his symptoms.  Today Jim is on one medication only and is no longer isolated in his own home.  Sarge reminds him when he begins to tense up, his anxiety level s are down and so are his nightmares.  Because Sarge has his back and can act as his "spotter", Jim can focus on what he needs to do. 

This amazing couple wanted to help other veterans and started the non-profit Paws and Stripes.  Thanks to the success of this great organization, many other veterans, like Jim, have gotten their lives back.  It is the aim of this organization to provide these dogs and training for no cost to the veteran.

To learn more about Paws and Stripes, go to http://www.pawsandstripes.org.  If you want to understand what PTSD and TBI are and how they affect Veterans, watch the video on their home page. It is one of the best I have seen.   In it Jim also tells what life was like before and after Sarge - please take the time to watch it so that you can understand what our Veterans are dealing with. 

Thanks Jim!!

Leander in the Dallas/Fort Worth area

Leander and Sierra

We met with Leander at River Legacy Park in Arlington Texas.  Once again we were blessed with a 70 degree day under beautiful  blue skies. We keep waiting for our luck with the weather to end and it keeps on going!  This remarkable veteran received his service dog from K9s for Warriors in Florida.  It was a two day drive from Jacksonville to the Dallas/Fort Worth area but after meeting him, we were so grateful we had decided to make the trip!

Leander was in the army 17 years, going in directly after high school ROTC. He was stationed in Washington, D.C. where he worked closely with a couple presidents.  He then left the military, worked in law enforcement before reenlisting because he felt that part of his life was incomplete.  During that training period, he was diagnosed with leukemia. Fortunately it went into remission after he finished chemotherapy, and a few months later he was deployed to Iraq.  He suffered severe brain damage and leg injuries when an IED blew up the Humvee he was in.  He was at Walter Reed a long time, also going through ten knee surgeries- and still suffers from severe headaches and PTSD.

Leander's PTSD has left him with sleeping issues and a lot of anxiety. He told us that he did whatever shopping he had to if possible at night time to avoid people and crowds.  Then he found out about K9s for Warriors from Richard and he applied for the program and was able to be paired with Sierra. Sierra is a beautiful small golden retriever that was surrendered by her owner that had to relocate to New York from Florida. Luckily she ended up with K9s for Warriors and was in their training program- later finding her way to Leander. Sierra has been a real blessing to Leander who said she has "given him back his freedom."  I asked Leander how he knew she was the right dog for him during his training with Sierra in Florida.  He said that the third night there, she woke him from a nightmare.  She wakes him from nightmares, will circle to warn him when he is under too much anxiety and helps him manage other symptoms.  

Today Leander works for Delta airlines today and is the first employee with a service dog.  Watch my FB page and we'll post the wonderful public service announcement that Delta has made about this partnership.  He also travels as much as he can promoting K9s for Warriors. Here is Leander and Sierra during their training in Florida and one of them at Ground Zero in NY. 

He told me about the time after they came home to Texas when she saved his life.  Sierra does not bark- at least hardly ever.  But one day when he and Sierra got home from work, he started to feel ill.  Sierra started barking and barking at him and he remembered what Brett, the trainer in Florida had told all the Veterans training with dogs.  Brett  said to listen to your dog.  So he called his girlfriend (now fiancé) and told her about the strange way Sierra was acting.  She came over, found Sierra still barking and by then Leander was really feeling sick and she took them to the emergency room.   Leander at age 41 was having a heart attack.  Amazing-  so Sierra has literally saved his life and is continuing to change his life every day.

Sandi Capra, development director for K9s For Warriors, suggested that it was well worth the two day drive to Dallas to meet these two amazing Veterans.  She was so right!  

Ryan and Spirit in Jacksonville

After we finished Bella's photograph's in St. Augustine, we stayed and met Ryan at the Light House with his service dog Spirit.  We walked across to the yacht club where we found a perfect location for Spirits photographs. Afterwards we went to Aunt Kate's -  a casual restaurant in St. Augustine and sat on their deck overlooking the water as we had lunch and got to know Ryan. Ryan was very special to us because he was from Minnesota- specifically Winona. 

Ryan  went into the Navy in August 2002 and has been serving a little over 10 years.  From June 2010 to July 2011 he was stationed at Guantanamo Bay- a total of 13 months.  The military today does not allow anyone to serve over six months at a time there because it is extremely taxing  mentally. Unfortunately for Ryan that restriction wasn't in place during his service. 

Ryan is active still serving in Jacksonville. Like John (Daisy's owner) he became isolated  finding few peers in his Naval ranks that understood his symptoms. Because of the nature of his symptoms he just stayed home after getting through each work day. He told us he became an expert at ordering everything he needed online so he could avoid going out. He also told us that even when he was able to get back home on leave that he didn't feel "safe" at family gatherings-showing just how bad his anxiety levels were.

Luckily he was able to start with a volunteer program at K9sForWarriors and discovered how therapeutic it was just being around the dogs. Noticing this, Shari Duval was able to find him a spot in their schedule of veterans so that could begin training with his own service dog.  Spirit, a wonderful Black Lab was not originally chosen for him, but ended up being the perfect dog. Meg Kuchar, mother of PGA golfer Matt Kuchar helped raise the puppy and kept in close contact with Ryan during and after his training with Spirit.  She took great pride in the role in providing this service dog for Ryan. Here is a picture of her with Spirit as a puppy and Spirit (below) as a puppy training with other dogs at the wharf. 

Ryan told us that the first 2 weeks of training got him out more into the public than he had the past several years.  After trying everything to manage these terrible symptoms of PTSD from counseling to biofeedback, finally Spirit was the answer to get him back into life.  Ryan is doing well now- in fact he and Kevin (Bella's owner) who trained in the same class at K9's decided to go to a concert together and were successful. He thought his concert days were over. This picture below is of Ryan and Shari Duval.

Soon his time serving with the Navy will be over.  Because of his personal experience and the radical improvements in his own situation,  he wants to assist other Veterans get their own service dogs.  And best of all, he wants to come  back to Minnesota after he receives the training that will allow him to change the lives of others. We were thrilled with this news, aware that MN has over 14,000 Veterans with full blown PTSD- some, of course, that would benefit from the help of a service dog.  

We look forward to continuing this story with Ryan and hope to work together to find a way to bring more service dogs to veterans.  Ryan is someone very special and we are confident he will succeed with his dream to help his fellow Veterans.  Thank you Ryan!!!

Kevin and Bella in St. Augustine, Florida

Paul and I met Kevin, his wife Lisa and Bella at the St. Augustine Light House. We found a perfect spot to take Bella's pictures on the front porch of the Light House keepers home.   It was a gorgeous morning the day after hurricane Sandy moved up the coast and the skies were blue.

Kevin and Bella, a beautiful 10 month old golden retriever, had just graduated from K9sFor Warriors. Bella had been purchased as a puppy by three women who had to reluctantly surrender her and chose K9s for Warriors. She went for four months of training before being assigned to Kevin. Although they had only been together a short time, Bella had already made a significant difference in Kevin's life.

Kevin had gone into the army in 1988 going straight to jump school after basics and became a specialist in long range reconnaissance, came out in 1991 and like others, felt the calling to go back in after 9-11-2001. He was sent to Iraq, injured several times, requesting each time to be returned to his unit. 

Kevin was diagnosed with PTSD in 1990 and had battled symptoms without success until being matched with Bella some 22 years later. The day he arrived at K9s For Warriors, Kevin said is a time he'll never forget.  Amidst all the people and dogs in the yard, Bella ran right directly up to him as if she knew they were meant for each other. Kevin said the training was fantastic, putting he and Bella and the other warriors in their class into every environment to test out different situations. By the way Kevin told us that the three women that surrendered Bella, came to their graduation.

Today Bella is always there to help with his anxiety's, helps him with crowds and forces him to talk to people. He said because Bella is so beautiful, people just want to know their story and he is getting used to telling it. She is always there to remind him to calm down, keeps his nightmares "at bay" and constantly watches his back and gives him "cover".

We learned so much from this wonderful couple that morning and can't thank them enough for being so generous with their time.  We also really enjoyed our time with them and hope we can stay in touch. This is one of those situations when we just marvel at the difference that is made so quickly when a service dog is brought into someone's life.  It is truly amazing.

The Dog House at Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida

K9s For Warriors is one of the organizations that put us in contact with their graduates, many who will be subjects in our 2014 Veterans Edition Calendar "Rescued Heroes". We arrived at their new facility in Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida on Friday for a tour and opportunity to meet their great staff.  They had recently moved to this property and had finished getting it all ready for a brand new group of Veterans that would be arriving the next Monday.

We were able to meet their development director Sandi Capra who put me in touch with their people, Brett Simon- Director of K9 Operations, Sherrie Keshner - Coordinator K9 Operations, the Deval's son in law who is their business manager and Shari Duval, President and the one all the graduates fondly refer to as "Mom".  We were so anxious to meet her after hearing all the wonderful things her "Warriors" had to say about her.  She is, without a doubt, the heart of this great organization who never stops caring about her graduates.

The house looks terrific with bright and freshly painted rooms just waiting for the next group.  It has been so thoughtfully put together and the decorating is just perfect.  It has this large family room with a fireplace, dining area and a great kitchen overlooking it.  There is a pool, and a kennel facility that is shiny and new with a group up of happy dogs in training now just waiting to become of service to some lucky Veteran.  They have a wonderful office area attached - the whole place is just so cheerful.  They have a large fenced area and a deck in the back.  You just can't help but feel at home here.

Thank you all for taking the time to let us take Lola's photos and for giving us the tour especially with the busy schedule you had getting ready for the next group of guys.  Your graduates tell us they become part of your family after going through the program - it's very easy to imagine that after visiting and meeting you all.  What a wonderful place!!

John and Daisy in Jacksonville

We arrived at John's house just as he and Daisy were getting home from work. He is still active in the Navy stationed in Jacksonville.  John enlisted in 1994 and had a tour in Afghanistan. He had a land based job and was a camera operator- as he put it "the eyes in the sky for the boots on the ground". 

When he got came home from his tour he suffered from PTSD that he acquired due to this land  based duty.  Most of his Navy peers couldn't understand what he was going through which isolated him even more. John had severe insomnia along with nightmares and terrible anxieties. The medications prescribed just made everything much worse.  His wife joined us and explained that things were so bad that they separated. His life started spiraling down to a point where he hit a brick wall.

Luckily a friend of his had received a service dog through K9s For Warriors and John started volunteering for the organization working with the dogs. He applied to them and they help him by evaluating and training Daisy, a Whippet Beagle mix found on Petfinder. John feels Daisy really saved his life and in time he was able to reunite with his wife and children. Here are two pictures of John and Daisy on graduation day at K9s For Warriors and another is that same day of John, his wife and Daisy.

Daisy is an extremely nurturing dog and allows John to use her as a pillow when he has severe migraines.   He told us that he belongs to a support group for those with PTSD.  Once during one of the group sessions another member of the group was starting to have a flashback and Daisy instinctively jumped on this man's lap trying to assist. Daisy is just an amazing dog.  He also said that he finds others at work sometimes stop by to see Daisy when they need some stress relief. 

Today John's life is completely different thanks to Daisy. When we got up to leave I asked John if he could sum up what Daisy mean to him and this is what he said, "Having Daisy as a service dog has broken down all the walls of PTSD and built a bridge to a new life".

We really loved meeting John and his wife and of course Daisy. So not only did Daisy save his life but brought a family back together. It doesn't get much better than that! 

Sherry and Lola in Jacksonville

Sherry joined the Marines at age 17 in l986.  After several years of service she left and was a civilian for 20 years.  Like other Vets we've met, she felt "the calling" to serve her country again joining the National Guard at age 40.  Nine months later she was deployed to Iraq. 

She left the service with PTSD and severe back issues. Sherry found herself totally unable to go out due to panic attacks and called K-9's for help because she desperately wanted her life back.  Training with Lola, a medium sized black mix found on Pet Finder, changed her life completely. Here is a picture of the two during a makeover and day of pampering  that K9's planned for the first all women group of Veterans.

After graduating she and Lola started volunteering on a regular basis. Soon she was asked by Sheri DuVal, President of K9s, to become their full time volunteer coordinator and she gladly accepted.  Today Sherry and Lola do whatever is needed to help out and she admits it is absolutely the best job and "therapy" ever.

Thanks Sheri, we had fun getting to know you and Lola too- we hope you'll keep in touch with us!

Nathan and Chance in Jacksonville

On Thursday, October 25 we arrived in Jacksonville, got settled into a hotel and contacted Nathan an Army Veteran who is the proud owner of a service dog called Chance. Nathan's family also lives in the Jacksonville area and they were all getting ready for a family cruise that was leaving the next morning.  Nathan had left Chance at his father's house while he was at an appointment late that day. 

We were losing light so Nathan's father met with us and introduced us to Chance and became Paul's assistant in getting the photos.  Chance was so good and became accustomed to us quickly and we were able to get many good shots.  Nathan's Dad told us that he had been in the Army for 12 years, enlisting at age 19.  He was a helicopter mechanic serving two tours in Iraq and one in Afghanistan. 

He was medically discharged and with the assistance of Chance has been able to return to school full time. Here's a picture of Nathan and Chance at K9sForWarriors on graduation day.  As we left Nathan was just getting home so we had a chance to meet him and get a shot of Nathan with Chance.  Nathan promised to send me a paper he wrote about his life before and after getting Chance so stay tuned for a little more about his story later.

Nathan, it was great meeting you, your Dad, your sister and girlfriend. Give a special thanks to your Dad for working so hard to help us get some great pictures. We hope everything turned out and you were able to find calmer waters on your cruise!

Justin and Cody in Charlotte, N.C.

On Tuesday, October 23 we left Nashville and drove to Charlotte, N.C. through the most spectacular fall colors in the Great Smoky Mountains. Driving through those mountains and series of tunnels is something we won't forget- wow.

Wednesday we met Justin in Charlotte and followed him to a wonderful spot on Lake Wylie for photos. Justin's service dog is a great Labradoodle named Coty.  I can easily see why this wonderful breed is so successful as service dogs- they are extremely smart, loyal and friendly and we just fell in love with Cody. After the photos were done, we spend several hours sitting at a picnic table overlooking the lake, talking with Justin.

 Justin is a Army Vet that served one year in Iraq and three months in Afghanistan before returning to the U.S. wounded. He like many of the Veterans we talked to fought very hard to stay in but after 6-7 months on "medical hold" was told by a West Point surgeon that he was out.

After separating from the Army, he moved to Charlotte, N.C. joining his wife where they had their first child 9 days later. But life with was very tough. Besides all of his physical wounds, he was battling PTSD. His hyper vigilance, inability to be in crowds, along with many triggers kept him housebound. Over the next 2 years he tried counseling many times and many medications but nothing worked.

Luckily for Justin he talked to another Veteran, Rick, who had received a service dog. This friend found with the aid of his service dog he could finally manage his symptoms and was able to get his life back. Justin applied and was accepted to the same program.  While he was waiting for his service dog training period to arrive, he volunteered to transport a dog down to K9s For Warriors from Charlotte.  This dog had been given up  by an owner that had left him horrible shape- his teeth were black, hair completely matted, and he was suffering from malnutrition.  But someone saw the potential in this resilient dog so he was screened by the trainers and OK'd for training due to his aptitude and temperament.

Justin and another Veteran agreed to pick up the dog from the foster family at a Bass Pro Shop in Charlotte for the trip to Florida.  When he arrived, Justin found out that dog was going to be trained for him.  They met inside the store and when Justin went up to Coty, the dog lifted his paw and they shook hands! The picture you see here was taken  at that very moment. "Cody" and Justin bonded on the way down to Jacksonville and Coty stayed on to work with the trainers. Justin and he were reunited months later for their 3 week training together and graduated from the program on May 24 of 2012.  

 

Life has been completely different since they met.  Justin said he laughs more, has his "emotions" back, and is now able to go out in the world again. But the best is just the peace of mind that Coty gives him- something we  have heard quite often. He said "Coty has my back" -every veteran understands what that means. Coty also wakes him from nightmares and alerts him to seizures. Justin's wife told him "It's  good to have you 'home'"- meaning Justin hadn't been the same person since 2003- not until Coty.

And to Justin- thank you so much - what a great time we had with you.  We are grateful that you took the time to explain to us what Vets are going through - there was so much we were unaware of.  It was a  wonderful day- I know we'll stay in touch.

Southern Hospitality Found In Memphis

When we arrived at our hotel in Memphis Paul tried to download the Louisville photos from his camera to our computer, only to discover it didn't work. Knowing this had to be fixed by the next afternoon and Melissa's photos we went off terribly frustrated to the Cracker Barrel for supper.

I noticed turnip greens on the menu and asked the waitress what they tasted like and she didn't know but a handsome man who looked like a Marine at the next table said he could tell me. That started a conversation with him asking if we were on vacation, etc. and we told him what we were doing.  He told us about his years of service and his experiences and friends of his on active duty suffering with PTSD unable to admit to having it or asking for help fearing they would lose their standing. His very pretty wife and young son joined us and we continued talking for some time. They finished first and we said good bye- they made our stop so much interesting but also reminded us how devastating PTSD can be to servicemen and women and how trapped so many feel with their situations- unable to ask for and get help. Instead they just try and manage to get through their days.

When we were finished and went to the cashier to pay our check, we were told the couple at the table next to us paid for our meal. We asked the manager if he could find their information so we could thank them properly but after hunting through the receipts he just couldn't be sure. They were going to check in on our blog and if they do we want them to know we thought it was a beautiful gesture- thank you!

Then the next day we went into the Best Buy close by and the head of the Geek Squad totally fixed what was wrong with the computer and spent a lot of time explaining how to avoid issues in the future. He had friends very involved with rescue and when we asked how much we owed him he said "Nothing" !! So thank you again Nathan of the Memphis Best Buy Geek Squad!

So how about that for Southern Hospitality??!

Monday, October 22 with Melissa and Chauncey in Memphis

Today we met Army Veteran Melissa, her service dog Chauncey, a large handsome golden retriever,   and her friend Joe. We found a great spot in a park and once again were blessed with perfect weather. It was so easy to get good shots of Chauncey because he was such happy dog and glad just to be outside.  After Paul was sure he had good shots, we had a chance to talk about her special relationship with this wonderful dog. 

Melissa went into the army in 1992, after several years went into the National Guard where she remained until 9-11.  On 9-11 she was heading to the first day of a new job when she heard on her car radio that the Twin Towers had come down.   She never started that day, instead she re-upped into the service again, later deploying to Iraq. She served in a hospital unit and saw the horrors of war on a daily basis.  In 2004 she was medically retired. 

I asked her what life was like before Chauncey and like so many other vets with PTSD, she was totally housebound. This was due to panic attacks that could be triggered by many things outside of her home. She told us she couldn't go into a convenience store for milk without having a panic attack. A cardboard box along the road meant a possible road side bomb. So she stayed at home with the depression that comes with isolation.

She had heard about the great results service dogs were having in managing PTSD symptoms and started searching online for an organization to help her. She became discouraged after finding most organizations required a 3-6 month stay and training period or that the organization served only veterans with physical disabilities.

`She was ready to give up but decided to call one more- K9s For Warriors in Florida. One of the founders, Sheri Duval listened to her and said "Send in your paperwork NOW", she did and was accepted to their program. After communicating back and forth with their head trainer, a trained service dog was thoughtfully chosen for Melissa.  In June of 2012 she started the three week training period at their facility where they "fine tune" the training to include the Veterans own personal needs and symptoms.

Something unexpected happened during their training period. While training with Chauncey, she suddenly realized after the first two weeks, that she was no longer stuttering. Melissa said that every aspect of their training was life changing. This organization also treats their veterans to an array of special events from makeovers to massages.  Every veteran we have talked to that has gone through this program has raved about the treatment they received and more important, how special it made them feel.

Even though Melissa and Chauncey have only been together for 5 months, Melissa's life has changed dramatically.  I asked what was the most life changing and she said that she is able to go out into public again. With Chauncey giving her confidence and watching her back she has regained her life. She is a full time student now and said everyone on campus loves Chauncey.

She has a website http://fightingptsd.org/ and if you want to know more about her life and also find an excellent section defining PTSD and TBI - check it out. Looking at Melissa and Chauncey, we have no doubt their future is bright. Thank you so much Melissa and Chauncey for spending time with us today- we really loved meeting you - oh and Paul wants to thank Joe for helping with the photos and making it more interesting for Chauncey with all his "ringtone special effects"- they worked! 

October 21st- Alex and Chris in Louisville, Kentucky

Hi Everyone, 
After our first 2011 miles, we are in Charlotte and I'm going to try really hard tonight to catch you all up on the last couple days. Here is our blog from Sunday, October 21:

Sunday, October 2lst  we were in Louisville, Kentucky.  It is was a really beautiful morning- clear blue skies and 70.  We met up with our first two veterans and their dogs- Chris and service dog, Niko along with Alex and his service dog Skip. Both of these Veterans went through K9s For Warriors for their service dogs. This organization was founded by PGA golfer Bob DuVal and his wife Shari. We'll tell you much more later about this great group-here's the link if you want to know more now http://www.k9sforwarriors.org/

We asked Chris to pick a good site for the photo session and he chose the Zachary Taylor National Cemetery. We soon understood why he chose this location.  It was just beautiful with huge oak trees throughout and at their peak of color.  The grounds are all surrounded by an old stone wall. Alex was the first to arrive with his dog Skip. We couldn't help but notice right away the great relationship between these two. 

Alex is 27 years old and joined the army at age 17. He also was in ROTC during his high school years. He served 2 tours in Iraq as an MP during his 6 years of service. As Paul was photographing Skip, I asked Alex to tell me about the difference Skip has made in his life. After his discharge from the service he found he couldn't leave the house for five months and often thought about suicide. He was on eight different medications but nothing helped until he met Skip.

Alex told me that after they first met and completed their first day together of training at K9s For Warrior, they went to sleep. During that first night he woke up with Skip barking in his face and thought "what the heck is this dog doing?"  He then realized he was drenched with sweat - Skip had just woke him up from a nightmare. From that moment on he knew Skip was the right dog for him. He said Skip helped integrate him back into society and the most important thing was that Skip "taught him how to love again".  

 Soon Alex will be leaving on a promotional tour all over the country with a group that is raising funds and awareness for service dogs for Veterans. Here is a picture taken for that tour. Skip, by the way is probably one of the cutest dogs I have ever seen. I asked him about Skip's rescue story and he said that he was just left at a gas station in Florida. After being rescued, he was screened to become a service dog and his training started at K9s For Warriors.

Soon Chris joined us all with his gorgeous German Shepherd, Niko. Chris, age 36 was also an MP and served for 10  years with 2 tours in Iraq. Until he received Niko, he had been housebound for one year and was on 16 different medications.  I asked him also to tell me how Niko has helped him and he said that the very best thing was being able to reclaim his independence. Today he is on five medications instead of sixteen. He added that only one of those medications now is for mood. 

Paul and I want to thank Chris and Alex for the time they gave us Sunday morning- it was just wonderful finally talking to them in person.  We were so impressed with these young men and it was such an honor to meet them. These are our first two veterans on this journey and it is absolutely amazing to hear the difference these dogs are making in the lives our Veterans. What a beginning! 

Well, it's on to Memphis to meet our next Veteran, Melissa and her Golden Retriever, Chauncey.

Lynn

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thank you to these people who helped to get us on the road.  I'm sure all you dog lovers know how important it is to leave your dog in good hands when you need to. We are so grateful to Beth and Stephen who are staying with our Cairn Terrier Maddie, as seen in this picture. What great friends they are for giving us this important peace of mind for the next couple weeks!

 

Next, thanks to Gail at AAA for heading us in the right direction- we have three bags of maps and all the information we need to meet up with our Veterans. She made the itinerary of this 4,000 mile trip actually look possible.

And now for the Avis Crew at the Mpls International Airport. Avis has the motto "We Try Harder" and believe me- they really do. Avis is responsible for the gas efficient Toyota we are using -we'll tell you more about their role in this blog a little later. Just know they helped us reserve exactly what we needed, model wise, when no one else would! In the picture with Paul are three of the Avis crew who helped us get on the road.




 

Thanks to Casey (son) and Melissa for putting us up in Kansas City for our first night on the road. We spent Saturday driving to Louisville, KY and just can't get over how spectacular the colors are right now- absolutely perfect timing.




This morning we met with Chris and Alex our first two incredible heroes and it couldn't have started better - these are truly two of America's finest. We had hoped to tell you all about this wonderful day but like Murphy's Law, we had a glitch downloading our photos. Hopefully the "Geek" squad here in Memphis can resolve all our problems in the morning!

Tomorrow we are meeting our next hero Melissa and service dog Chauncey, a beautiful golden. We promise to give you a full report with photos tomorrow night!





 

The Purpose Of Our Blog by Paul and Lynn Sansale

In 2012 Paul and I produced our first calendar called "Rescue Dog to Therapy Dog". It featured Paul's paintings of 12 rescued therapy dogs and told their story along with a dog/owner photo. We did this to bring awareness to the overwhelming problems the dog rescue world was facing due to the recession.

Someone purchased a case of those calendars to use as a fundraiser for an organization we had never heard of before -Paws and Stripes. Curious, we looked up this website and listened to founder and veteran Jim Stanek discuss his PTSD and TBI symptoms and how his specially trained service dog Sarge restored his life when nothing else worked. Long story short, we were so impressed by all we found out over the next year about these specially trained dogs and their vital work, that we decided to devote our 2014 calendar to telling their truly amazing stories.  

When we looked to our state of MN to find a Veteran with PTSD and a service dog, we could only find one.  We made his the cover dog on our 2013 Calendar "Rescued Heroes".  In order to find 12 rescued service dogs of Veterans for our 2014 calendar, we needed to go to other states that had programs that trained these special dogs specifically for "invisible wounds".  After studying many, we chose two we really admired- Paws and Stripes in Rio Rancho, New Mexico and K9s For Warriors in Ponte Verde, Florida.

During the next 2 1/2 weeks we are traveling to meet 14 rescued service dogs that belong to Veterans that  received and trained their dogs through one of these incredible programs.  We have made arrangements to meet our Veterans in  Louisville, Memphis, Charlotte, Jacksonville, Dallas and Albuquerque and places in between.  We'll photographing each of them and getting information for their stories, eventually turning it into a 2014 Calendar "Rescued Heroes- Veterans Edition". 

Stay tuned and follow along with us as we meet our "Heroes" over the next seventeen days!